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How to improve your relationships
If you want to improve your relationships do this: ✨✅ Develop your active listening skills.Listen with all your senses and pay full attention to what is being said: with your family, friends, colleagues, clients… even with your landlord! Being listened to is an incredible gift.✅ Listen with curiosity.When you are truly curious, you want to know more about the story.
You ask questions that invite the other person to be curious about their life. The information becomes very real.
You start a journey of discovery that might take you to places you’ve never been but that are worth exploring.Listen more, and listen better, and you’ll improve the quality of your conversations.And because every relationship starts with a conversation,make sure you are good at it!🌈 Now let’s imagine a scale, from 0 to 10 and 10 represents the most effective listening skills.
Zero stands for no listening skills at all. Where are you at today?Have a great day!
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